Showing posts with label Hurt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hurt. Show all posts

Saturday, 16 February 2013

The Hurt And The Healing

This evening I have been to watch a contemporary dance performance which considered the themes of loss and reconstruction following loss.
 
It was a fascinating portrayal of how loneliness can feel and how other people are essential in carrying us through times of bereavement and in helping us to restructure our lives.
 
There were six dancers in the piece and each one of them, at one point in the performance, was the 'odd one out' - the one by themselves.  The one dancing alone.  The one who was experiencing loss of some kind.
 
They each had a moment of dancing solo.
 
But then the other five would come and gather around them and physically support and strengthen them.  They would dance alongside them and lift and carry them.
 
It was a beautiful image.
 
And it was another wonderful picture of what God imagines the church to be like.
 
Paul writes,
 
"The way God designed our bodies is a model for understanding our lives together as a church: every part dependent on every other part, the parts we mention and the parts we don’t, the parts we see and the parts we don’t.  If one part hurts, every other part is involved in the hurt, and in the healing.  If one part flourishes, every other part enters into the exuberance."
 
[1 Corinthians 12:25-26 MSG]
 
I love that line: every other part is involved in the hurt, and in the healing. 
 
In the same way that the dancers in tonight's performance were all involved in each other's hurt and healing, this is what God envisions and longs for in His church.
 
 
 
 

Monday, 9 July 2012

When Life Hurts

As R.E.M sang, "Everybody cries and everybody hurts sometimes."

We live in an imperfect world with imperfect people who make imperfect choices.  And the result is that we get hurt.

Pain, in this life, is unavoidable.

Pain is a sign that there is something wrong: it points to the fact that things are not as they should be.  Pain prompts us to put things right.

It shouldn't be ignored.

As Taylor says in Gilmore Girls,
"Pain is your body's way of saying 'I'm not alright now, but I will be soon.  You've got to listen to your body.  You don't want to shut it up too soon ... that's called death.'"
We can ignore pain, we can dull the ache with pills and medicines, we can distract ourselves and bury the hurt.  But it never really goes away.

In order to heal, we need to let the wounds breathe.  We need to bring them out into the open and bring them before God.

"If your heart is broken,
You'll find God right there;
if you're kicked in the gut,
He'll help you catch your breath."
[Psalm 34:18 MSG]

"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
[Psalm 147:3 NIV]
These are some of the words from 'The Hurt and The Healer" by MercyMe (full lyrics at
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/mercyme/thehurtthehealer.html

"You take my heart and breathe it back to life
I’ve fallen into Your arms open wide
When the hurt and the healer collide."
Whilst being hurt may be unavoidable, staying hurt isn't.